Published On: Thu, Aug 13th, 2015

I am a Kaffir and I need a Hug

In the afternoon of 6 August, a blindfolded Muslim man named Mazim Mullah stood in a Mumbai street with his hands stretched open and a message that urged passersby to hug him: “I’m a Muslim and I trust you. Do you trust me? Enough for a hug.”

As the passersby stopped, many youths took up the trust challenge, walked up to him one by one and hugged him. Mullah’s image was shared on Facebook and other social media networks and liked by numerous people. The reason why it was liked is humanitarian but the message is political, which needs to be given some thought.

In a short video available on the internet, several girls – some of them wearing sleeveless tops and others donning headscarves – reached him and shook hands while at least one woman hugged him.

It is purely a humanitarian instinct to hug. Love knows no religion, no caste, and certainly no ideas that come in its path. A purely humanitarian desire will mean this: that you treat every person as a human being irrespective of their religious or other affiliation.

So, does it mean that Mazim Mullah, insofar as he decided to represent a Muslim, will be willing to marry a Hindu girl without converting her to Islam, or allow his sister to marry a Hindu boy?

In the republic the people of India nurtured from the 1950s onwards, a new generation of Indian youths has emerged, whose minds are not shackled to the emotional scars of the Partition or the Emergency’s political torments.

[pullquote]The skullcap is not a piece of cloth. It is a piece of politics. the Burqa is not a piece of cloth. It is a piece of ideology.[/pullquote]

This class of Indians, still in their teens and twenties, represents a constitutional generation, with their aspirations and social attitudes rooted in the ideals of equality, free speech and love for the country. Indian youths today generally approve equal rights for homosexuals.

Mullah’s act is a political statement: will he hug a homosexual with open eyes? Equality is a political act. There is an associated question: why did he blindfold himself?

Interestingly, Mazim Mullah wore a skullcap to represent an average Muslim. To Mullah and those who liked his image on Facebook, here are some substantive questions: How many Islamic clerics wearing skullcap will permit girls to sing and to dance, which is the ultimate form of personal expression?

Burqa Clad Women (Pic Courtesy: Google Image Search)

Burqa Clad Women (Pic Courtesy: Google Image Search)

Journalist Irshad Uppinangady has produced a documentary Swargada Haadiyalli Kamarutiruva Kanasugalu (Shattered Dreams on the Path to Heaven) in which 8-12 year old Muslim girls of Dakshina Kannada region dearly long to dance but their dreams are crushed: “The madrassa teacher will scold us. Aren’t we Muslims? We are not allowed to dance.”

Truth be told, the skullcap is not a piece of cloth. It is a piece of politics. Likewise, the Burqa is not a piece of cloth. It is a piece of ideology. It becomes extremely difficult to imagine if a burqa-wearing woman would have hugged Mazim Mullah.

The Burqa is an enclave of ideas in the cosmopolitan metropolis of Mumbai. Like the burqa, the skullcap contains a set of ideas that impinge on human agency and the ability of humans to progress. To Muslim boys who liked Mullah’s image on Facebook: will you allow your daughter and sister to hug a stranger?

Love is pure. Love is blind. It uplifts us as human beings. It teaches us to work across religions. What is the ultimate point of liking a blindfolded man? Aren’t the youths who hugged him with eyes wide open better human beings?

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The fact is this: Mullah’s act is necessarily a political action. It is an ideological statement on India’s politics and society. Mullah is presenting himself as a victim, a political victim, an argument that has in post-9/11 years been used to rationalise mainstream Islamism, notably by Mumbai’s own televangelist Zakir Naik who has single-handedly damaged the cause of Islamic reform.

 

Like Naik, Mullah too advances the cause of Muslim victimhood in which Islamism thrives. Unlike Naik, Mullah’s act is politically sophisticated, which looks good for secularism.

Secularism loves skullcaps and Iftar parties. Mullah tells us something like this: I am excluded from your mainstream; I don’t trust you; do you trust me? Prove it. And Indian youths indeed step forward, take the bait, and prove it, proving that the country’s mainstream is ready to hug this poor victim.

The real question though is this: will Mullah hug the mainstream?

Next time you notice signs of Wahhabism in your neighbourhood, here is a reverse test question to ask your neighbour: will you allow your daughter to go to a dance school? If the answer is No, ask: who excludes you from the mainstream – yourself or the mainstream?

Mullah’s act does have a message: please hug an Ahmadi Muslim, hug a homosexual, hug a Shia Muslim, or hug a Bajrangi.

Indian society has a large heart: do not keep your eyes shut; do not sleepwalk. Hug but hug with open eyes. Allow your daughter to ride a motorbike or to go to a dance school. Prove that yours is not a gimmick. Prove that yours is not ideological sensationalism, not a political psychology in which secularism and Islamic exclusivism feed each other and swim together.

About the Author

- Former BBC journalist Tufail Ahmad is the executive director of the Open Source Institute, New Delhi. Ahmad is the author of "Jihadist Threat to India – The Case for Islamic Reformation by an Indian Muslim." He tweets @tufailelif


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  1. Patriot Indian says:

    Oh Tufail,, you are really Tuu, definitely “fail……ure”.. dont know what is the significance of skull cap… For a true muslim, skull cap is not a must. It is not an ideology, but a cultrue like many of us in Hindu, wear pagri, caps in north east, nepal, like pagri in sikh community.. again your are utterly wrong defining burqa as ideology…. go to Rajastan and see our Hindu sisters and mothers wears ghoongat, to protect themselves from strangers views… same thing applies for Burqa…

    If you go to Rajasthan, all men wear a tradational pagri including muslim, hindu and other communities,

    It the wrong information about muslims, which makes the wrong thinkers like you and your creed spread the rumours and make hill out of a mole.

  2. Samester says:

    High probability that the skull-cap man was sponsored by Raza Academy

  3. daibon Ten says:

    India’s secularism is a fraud..its a trojan horse to fk the Hindus.. The Anti Hindus.. The ISlamists, the Evangelical christians and the MAoist left are pure evil

  4. Peace4U says:

    Maybe he is just testing whether all the islamophobia that is scattered around in media actually exists in a normal human being. It is a simple test for the masses if they as humans elieve in a human being

  5. Dr. MS says:

    There is something sleazy to an older man in public asking hugs from total strangers. Does he have Hindu, Christian. Jain. Buddhist, etc. friends? Why not ask hugs from them? Do these friends include men and women from all religions and even of atheist or agnostic background? And why is it it is always some naive college students falling for this kind of “public display of male sleaze”? How do you know this guy is not getting titillated and aroused from these hugs from young women strangers, while his burqa clad wife at home is made to feel like a slut just because she shows her arms or legs? ?”

    The question is, “Would you let your young daughters, dressed comfortably, revealingly or even sexily, hug older men, who are total strangers on the street, asking for a hug from strangers?” Would this guy take a hug from an openly sexy homosexual male with a long braid, earrings and his shirt undone?

    I would say this guy is a sleaze bag. Have him investigated for public nuisance and soliciting physical favors from young women strangers on the street. I would never let my nieces, daughters, young sisters or friends near this guy. One is taught to cross roads, and possibly run. when strange men come up to you and ask for hugs.

    Ladies report this guy.

  6. Shubhangi Raykar says:

    Why does he wear a skull cap and call himself a kafir And ask for a hug in public? What about mumbai’s moral policing?

    • devinder Singh says:

      This article is not for you bcz u failed to understand. So relaxe and enjoy

      • Shubhangi Raykar says:

        You can enlighten me. Who are you to decide what i can or cannot understand?

        • Peace4U says:

          Peace bro, you just raised an important point. It is nobody’s business to decide what one can do or should do or cannot do or shouldn’t do. What goes around, come around. If you think you can raise a question on somebody and tell her/him on who are they to decide what you can or cannot understand, the exactly same thing is also applicable on the other her/him. Isn’t it?

        • Peace4U says:

          Peace bro, he is just clarifying that you diverted the subject so article isn’t for your intent. So as he said, relax and enjoy

  7. Prashant Joshi says:

    Very well written

  8. saurav says:

    Very strong. Never read anything so powerful.

  9. Vikram says:

    BRILLIANT…have to admire the indoctrination OR chutzpah of Islamists – they have perfected victimhood while internally hating the host society, to an art form

  10. GAURAV Solanki says:

    Thing is if any religion doesn’t evolve along with time than it will have disastrous effects. Religion should also be there to keep natural law in the society but there should be made many changes like Buddhist or many Hindus did against what’s written in scriptures. Azim Premji, Tufail Ahmad kind of muslims want to see there community to evolve and to have broad mindedness with time by still believing in Allah but many educated,uneducated Maulanas or fanatics who wants to stick to old law and orders in old scriptures, force others to do the same by showing them fear of same Allah. Hence we see ISIS, LeT etc. Every religious people have to accept the truth that changes have to be done in the beliefs to walk hand in hand and to remain with love in the world.

    • Yuvraj says:

      Christians have moved on from old testament to new testament but will the Muslims move on from the violent verses in Quran? will the likes of Zakir Naik & Owaisi allow this reform? The reason Islamists distance themselves from modern education is that the 1st thing Science will teach them is matter cannot be created (laws of thermodynamics), this completely questions the very existence of Allah the creator. Science has now proved by Hawking Radiation that matter can come into existence from nothing, are muslims comfy with such thoughts?

      • sujith says:

        owaisi and zakir naik? what about giriraj singh or togadia

        • Yuvraj says:

          Hinduism was never a one man show, few guys can never have an impact on Hinduism, unlike Owaisi & Zakir who are literally doing all the thinking for muslim masses.

          • sujith says:

            hinduism=Brahmanism,even before arab/british invaders higher caste hindus destroyed lives of innocnet people for thousand of years in the name caste,sati,dowry and untouchablity even now their hegemony continues thorugh RSS,VHP

          • Yuvraj says:

            hmmm commie dog barking

          • sujith says:

            as usual illiterate sanghi using worst language in defense…am follower ambedkar,periyar i think your born and bought up in hindu family and went to RSS shaka see Muslims,Sikhs and other minorities are enemies…..why people like you with garbage and hatred in mind using internet your ancestors never used it lol…

          • Yuvraj says:

            my my my….so riled up over a post on internet??? you need some anger management program, proves you are a jihadi aplogist or commie/leftist/naxal b*stard, or both lolhahaha. You are worst than Osama. People like you have no place in civil society, get out from here you filthy commie jihadi apologist.

          • Peace4U says:

            my my my…so riled up over a post ? peace brother, what goes around comes around

          • sujith says:

            That’s your level dumb peanut brain man,learn something agony poor people , I can provide money to you why don’t you join school learn basics of life!

          • Yuvraj says:

            ha ha ha mirchi lagi? bloody commie gutter pig

  11. Siddharth says:

    this perverse sense of victimhood prevalent especially in India is a direct consequence of the distorted history that has been taught to us by Nehru’s beloved socialist historians….But one of the most brilliant articles I’ve ever read on the subject…well done Tufail Ji…..

  12. Shailendra Singh says:

    You are are Tufail Ahmad. Whatever you wrote here is “real world”

  13. Jishnu says:

    “In the republic the people of India nurtured from the 1950s onwards, a
    new generation of Indian youths has emerged, whose minds are not
    shackled to the emotional scars of the Partition or the Emergency’s
    political torments.”

    Which means that the generation of youth that emerged does not also have the lessons from those painful experiences of this nation and the nature and source of those problems which have not gone anywhere and have not stopped affecting the nation. We still have the same exact problem in Bengal J&K Kerala that we had at the time of Bengal partition. Just that the young generation that is neither aware of its source nor lessons from those experiences nor understands the seriousness of the problem and its impending danger to the nation.

    To celebrate ignorance is to set ourselves up for another round of such violence.

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